December 8, 2010

is it sensitive to you?


what's up peeps? how are you doing today?
i have been thinking, what topic should i post. ohh, gotcha! it is about people who already has a boy/girlfriend. i meant, couple! and peeps, no offence when reading this post. this is part of my opinion.


nowadays, i can see many partners went for a date and acting like they have married. i meant, the guy just hold his partner's hand for the whole day as a sign that he really cares about his girlfriend and don't want her to be out of his vision. other incidents, the guy hold tight his girlfriend's waist and surprisingly, the girl didn't stop his action. like, she is so happy to what her bf is doing. 


and, sometimes you see there's a partner who live together in a house, a room and a bed? without a legal relationship.. it is like a trend, rite? this kind of lifestyle should not be followed especially for Muslims, of course! obviously, it is against the law of Islam!


probability of the girl to get pregnant is high. if she is lucky, maybe the guy realize something forbidden he had done and take it as a part of his responsibility. after delivering the baby, they will get married. but what if she's not? what happened? the guy run away from his responsibility. leave her alone and let her handle everything by herself. hey, don't he has pity on her? what people gonna say? she is pregnant but where the hell is her husband? eh, why her husband let her do every single things, alone? that is so evil okay!for sure, the girl will lost her strength to face the public. she cannot cope the pressure and for every single days she's going through, it is only the suffer days for her. 


see, only women have to pass through this situation. where is men? they just simply out from their responsibility. it is unfair! each partner must give and take. this is not a win-win situation. so guys out there, please concern about this! i don't want to hear any news about the innocent newborn baby dead bcoz of your irresponsible attitude. 


just get married if you and your partner are in love. having legal relationship is the ticket for you to do anything you want with your beloved partner. 


are you offended?

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